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| 5 Sheaky ways to find if you partner is cheating |
The most horrible thing in the world is when you find out someone is cheating on you. It can nearly destroy your life and send you on a downwards spiral until you lose control. It’s the last thing you would ever want to happen to anyone, never mind yourself. Sometimes we choose to put our faith in the wrong people. We think what we have is special, but we’re blinded to what’s really going on. It’s really sad to admit, but there’s a huge percentage of people willing to cheat these days.
Whether or not they know the consequences is anyone’s guess, but it’s something that happens and we must accept it. You need to find out before it’s too late. You want out of your relationship so you can go out and find someone who will treat you right. The first thing you need to know is whether anyone has cheated or not. If you’re already suspicious and don’t have any history of paranoia then you could be right. Let’s have a look at some ways you can find out the truth about whether someone is cheating on you or not.
The phone test
Most people having an affair will use their phone to speak to the other person. This is where it gets complicated because you can’t just check someone’s phone. You can wait until they are using it one day and walk behind them to reach over and kiss their cheek. You should be able to see by their reaction whether or not they have something to hide. If they are sending a message to someone they shouldn’t be it’s going to be hard for them to keep it secret because instinctive reactions always give people away.
Going out more at night
People don’t just usually start going out more at night. When you’re trying to think of excuses to cover your tracks it’s easy to think the other person is stupid when in fact it’s the other way around. If someone automatically starts going to the gym with their friend every night there could be something happening. The easiest way to find out is by asking questions, but be creative and ask one they might not have planned for. That way you’ll be able to tell.
Getting rid of the evidence
When people have been out and something has happened they won’t be too comfortable when they get home. It’s possible they want to jump in the shower before you can touch them. Maybe they want to get their clothes off and change into something else. Watch carefully how someone reacts and you should be able to tell if it’s normal or not. Sometimes all it takes is common sense.
You get more attention
Some people have a pretty strange way of dealing with an affair and that’s to show more affection towards their partner. For some reason they think that paying more attention to you will eliminate any thoughts from your head that anything bad is happening. This is once again proof that people think about things way more than they should. If they wanted to hide something from you they would act normal, but they don’t. They overcompensate and you can use it to find out if something is going on.
Lay a booby trap
People who cheat will probably do some of their communicating on the computer. Not always, but when people are using websites specifically designed to help people have affairs they will use the home computer at some point. If you install keylogger software it will tell you everything someone has done online. Once they are out at work you can see what they’ve been doing. This should only be used as a last resort when you are pretty sure what’s going on and you just want hard evidence.
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